Not a positive spin: what you would say if you stuck to what you know.
If the thought is unwanted and keeps pushing you to check things or ask for reassurance, this tool is not the right kind of help for it. Read about OCD on the NHS website.
The list, with examples
Each entry gives the pattern in a sentence and one made-up example of how it can sound. Open an entry for more examples and ways to catch that pattern.
1. Catastrophizing
Catastrophizing is imagining the worst possible outcome and starting to believe it will happen.
Example: “If I miss this deadline, I’ll lose my job, then the flat, then everything.”
2. Mind reading
Mind reading is assuming you know what someone else is thinking. Often we imagine that their thoughts are about us, and that they are negative.
Example: “They didn’t smile back, so they must think I’m strange.”
3. Fortune telling
Fortune telling is predicting how things will turn out, often as the worst case, even when that is unlikely. Psychology Tools describes it as a form of “jumping to conclusions”: imagining and predicting that bad things are going to happen to us.
Example: “I’ll mess up the interview anyway, so why prepare?”
4. All-or-nothing thinking
All-or-nothing thinking is seeing things in extremes, such as good or bad, success or failure, without noticing the shades of grey in between.
Example: “I missed one workout, so the whole plan is ruined.”
5. Overgeneralization
Overgeneralization is drawing a broad conclusion from a single event: assuming that one bad thing happening means more bad things will follow, or judging your ability, performance or worth on one incident.
Example: “I got one bad review, so I’ll never be good at my job.”
6. Mental filter
A mental filter means focusing only on the negative parts of a situation and ignoring other information, including anything positive or neutral. James Madison University’s counseling center likens it to mental tunnel vision.
Example: “Nine comments were kind and one was harsh, and the harsh one is all I can think about.”
7. Discounting the positive
Discounting, or disqualifying, the positive is ignoring or dismissing good things that have happened, for example by writing them off as flukes, so that neutral or even positive experiences turn into negative ones.
Example: “My boss praised the report, but she says that to everyone.”
8. Should statements
Should statements are thinking that things must or should be a certain way, for yourself or other people. They can set very high, sometimes unrealistic expectations.
Example: “I should have my whole life sorted by thirty.”
9. Labeling
Labeling is giving yourself or someone else a negative label based on the outcome of one small event.
Example: “I stumbled over one word in my speech. I’m hopeless.”
10. Emotional reasoning
Emotional reasoning is treating your emotions as facts: believing something must be true because you feel it strongly, without looking at the actual evidence.
Example: “I feel guilty, so I must have done something wrong.”
11. Personalization
Personalization is assuming that things you see, hear or experience are about you or caused by you. It can lead to feeling overly responsible, or blaming yourself for things that are not fully in your control.
Example: “The party was quiet. I must have made it awkward.”
How to use the worksheet
- Write the thought exactly as it sounds in your head, even if it is blunt or unfair.
- Read down the list and tick every trap that might fit. One thought can hold two or three; ticking none is fine too.
- Write a more balanced version: the same situation, told with only what you actually know.
- Put it on one page and print it if you want to keep it. Nothing you type is sent anywhere.
The balanced version does not have to be cheerful. “They went quiet and I don’t know why yet” is more balanced than “they hate me”, and also more balanced than “everything is fine”.
Spotting them in your own thoughts
A psychologist at Cleveland Clinic suggests catching these thoughts early, remembering that a thought is not a fact, and listening for trigger words such as “always”, “never”, “everyone”, “no one”, “nothing”, “everything” and “forever”.
She also suggests writing the thoughts down, where their keywords are easier to spot, and asking yourself whether you would see it differently if a friend were telling you this.
Spotting a trap is not the same as proving the thought wrong: there can be a real problem inside it. Once you have named the trap, ask what the problem underneath is, and whether it is one you can act on.
Where the idea comes from
Cognitive distortions were first noted by Aaron Beck in his research with depressed patients in the 1960s.
A 2016 paper in Europe’s Journal of Psychology, drawing on David Burns (1980), lists ten cognitive distortions: mindreading, catastrophizing, all-or-nothing thinking, emotional reasoning, labeling, mental filtering, overgeneralization, personalization, should statements, and minimizing or disqualifying the positive.
This page uses everyday names for them. The sources name some of them differently: “disqualifying” or “minimizing” the positive, and “filtering” for the mental filter.
Questions people ask
How many cognitive distortions are there?
Can I print a blank cognitive distortions worksheet?
Does noticing these thoughts mean something is wrong with me?
Worst case on repeat? Weigh it on the decatastrophizing worksheet
When to get help
These are self-help tools, not medical advice or a diagnosis. Talk to a doctor, or to one of the lines below, if:
- you have thoughts of harming yourself (see the lines below).
- you feel low or hopeless, and it is not lifting. The NHS suggests seeing a GP if you have had a low mood for more than 2 weeks, or if the things you are trying yourself are not helping.
- the worry is getting in the way of your daily life. The NHS suggests talking to a GP if anxiety is affecting your daily life.
- the thoughts feel unwanted and push you to check things or ask for reassurance again and again. OCD involves unwanted, intrusive thoughts that keep coming back, and compulsions such as asking for reassurance or checking. The NHS says it is important to get help if it has a significant impact on your life.
Lines you can call
- US:988 Suicide & Crisis LifelineCall or text 988Free and confidential, 24/7. You can also chat at 988lifeline.org.
- UK & Ireland:Samaritans116 123Free to call, day or night.
- England:NHS 111111, mental health optionUrgent help from the NHS when it is not an emergency.
In the US, in life-threatening situations, call 911. In the UK, if someone's life is at risk, call 999 or go to A&E. For urgent help in England, use NHS 111 online or call 111 and choose the mental health option. Elsewhere, call your local emergency number.
Sources
- What Are Cognitive Distortions? And How To Change Distorted Thinking. Cleveland Clinic Health Essentials. clevelandclinic.org
- Unhelpful Thinking Styles. Royal National Orthopaedic Hospital NHS Trust. rnoh.nhs.uk
- Unhelpful Ways of Thinking. James Madison University Counseling Center. jmu.edu
- Whalley M (2019). Cognitive Distortions: Unhelpful Thinking Habits. Psychology Tools. psychologytools.com
- Rnic K, Dozois DJA, Martin RA (2016). Cognitive Distortions, Humor Styles, and Depression. Europe's Journal of Psychology 12(3):348–362. PMC4991044
- Low mood, sadness and depression. NHS. nhs.uk
- Anxiety. NHS Every Mind Matters. nhs.uk
- Symptoms - Obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD). NHS. nhs.uk
- Where to get urgent help for mental health. NHS. nhs.uk
- Suicide Prevention. National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH). nimh.nih.gov
- 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline. 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline. 988lifeline.org
- Contact a Samaritan. Samaritans. samaritans.org
Sources checked claim by claim by an AI review. Approved for publishing by Oleksii Y. on 2026-10-05.
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